You’re mindful about what you put on to your skin, you choose deodorant without harsh chemicals and prefer skincare that feels good. But what about the products in your bedroom? Condoms, lubricants, sex oil or toys; they too can be part of a conscious lifestyle. Your intimate areas are sensitive, and that’s exactly where you don’t want ingredients that can irritate or disrupt your natural balance. In this article, we’ll guide you through the world of natural alternatives for intimate moments. Gentle, safe, and just as intentional as the rest of your routine.
Gentle on your intimate areas, without the fuss
The skin around your intimate areas is thin and delicate. Not only is it more sensitive to friction, but it also absorbs substances more quickly than other parts of the body. Ingredients you may already avoid in your daily skincare, like artificial fragrances, parabens or silicones, are still commonly found in lubricants and massage products.
Natural alternatives are better suited to your body’s needs. Think of water-based lubricants enriched with plant-based ingredients like aloe vera or glycerin, which help support your pH balance and are gentle on your skin. If you prefer oils, pay close attention to the ingredients: fragrance-free, pure oils like coconut or almond are popular for massage but less suitable for use with condoms, as they can cause friction or damage. In that case, a water-based lubricant is ideal. My Lubie offers a great water-based lubricant, but if you prefer an oil, the CBD oil from My Lubie and the Sex & Body Massage Oil from Dame are highly recommended.
Condoms you can barely feel
A natural condom isn’t just for the eco-conscious; it’s also great for those who are sensitive to latex or looking for more comfort. Where standard condoms can sometimes feel thick or stiff, there are now plenty of alternatives that are softer, thinner, yet just as safe.
My Lubie uses natural rubber latex, a plant-based material derived from the sap of the rubber tree. Unlike synthetic latex, this version contains no petrochemical additives. The condoms are free from fragrances, parabens, and animal-derived ingredients, and come with a mild water-based lubricant. The result is a reliable, vegan, and comfortable product that’s gentler on intimate skin.
Note: natural rubber latex is not suitable for those with a latex allergy.
Pleasure with toys made from safe materials
When using something on or near your intimate areas, you want to be sure it’s safe. Still, many sex toys are made from porous materials or contain plasticizers. Plasticizers (also known as phthalates) are chemicals used to make plastic flexible, but they can cause irritation with prolonged contact or accumulate in the body. Not something you want near your sensitive skin.
Vibrators made from 100% medical-grade silicone, like those from Dame, are a safe and reliable alternative. This type of silicone is developed for medical use and undergoes strict testing for biocompatibility, meaning it’s well tolerated by the body and doesn’t cause unwanted reactions. Medical-grade silicone is hypoallergenic, non-porous, and free from fragrances, dyes, and plasticizers. That makes it not only safe and gentle for intimate areas but also hygienic to use. The non-porous surface prevents bacteria from accumulating and is easy to clean with water and mild soap. Plus, the material is strong and durable, so you can enjoy it for a long time, without compromising on comfort or safety.
By choosing natural, safe, and thoughtfully designed products in the bedroom too, you’re taking care of yourself on every level.
